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A Dynamic Balance

What an interesting week of study it has been. The title of this weeks studies was: Measuring the Cost.  We learned all about balance and rest and how to not be burnt out. What were worthy sacrifices to the Gods of business and success, and what were worthy investments of our time. Why investing in our spouses and children are eternally and ethically significant.

Here I sit at 1:15 am on a rainy Saturday morning plugging away toward a future. I can literally hear my husband snoring in the other room. My children are all tucked in dreaming soundly I hope of wonderful things away from the pressures of adult life. I am driven, and my weariness will not deter me from pursuing this dream of mine.

When I read Monson's "Formla for Success" He stated 4 significant things: Be Prepared, Be Productive, Be Faithful, Be Fruitful.  He told us that we could effectively do that by filling our minds with truth, filling our lives with service, and filling our hearts with love.  I really miss hearing him speak. What a good man and a stellar example.

Life Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness, was a cautionary piece, and held a myriad of advice that I hope to study further. One point that was poignant to me was when he talked about how growth of self only really occurs when the challenge is enjoyable, goal oriented, requires constant perfection of skill, and accomplishes something meaningful. He encouraged us to look beyond ourselves....which recalled something very important told to me in earlier years of my life.

We had some portion of our study dedicated to the financial end of things. Savings/budgeting plans, and how not to become its slave were key topics. After reading "Attitude on Money" by Stephen Gibson I asked myself the following questions:
  • What is your attitude toward money?
My idea is that money is not good or evil, it is just a tool. A tool that we can either put to work for us, or one that can encumber us and make us strain. 

  • How can your view of money affect the way you live?
Our view on money can affect the way that we live by leading us to either fear it or engage it. When we are afraid of it we do not save and invest. When we engage it we can invest in our future and let it make money for us.

  • What rules are recommended for prospering?
The rules recommended for prospering were: 1.) Seek the Lord and have hope in him. 2.) Keep the commandments, temporal and tithing/offerings. 3.) Think about $, plan how you can be self reliant. 4.) Take advantage of chances for learning so you aren't ignorant of these matters. Education is key. 5.) Learn the laws upon which the blessings of wealth are predicated. 6.) Do not send away the naked, hungry, thirsty, sick or those held captive.

We also read and watched several things about the elusive word balance. It is very hard sought, and unattainable. Several tips and ideas on how to still maneuver through the entrepreneur life were given. It reminded me not to slack off on our family counsels anymore. We need to do that.

Lots of good motivational and inspiring information this week. I hope to ponder on these things more through the weekend.

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